Of course, the classic break up line is "it's not true ... it's me!" What does this mean? Who is it me or you? The statement leads us to blame on someone in the relationship. Although the meaning of the term seems clear that the statement may not always mean what it sounds like it says. Let's get this on.
Perhaps you have this line before, if someone with destruction. You can access this place, it was used. If so, what did you really mean when yousaid? What did you feel? If it was you where you believe it? Have the other half of the relationship really the problem?
There may be cases where someone really believes that they, and not for the other person. But this line is basically a way for someone to make an attempt to let the other person down gently. They try everything they do to be able to save the other person's feelings and place as much blame on the termination of the relationship, as they are on. InThis way the person does not feel dumped so bad, after all, it was not to be, it was the other person.
When someone uses this line to a relation, they are basically saying: "I want to get out late, but I want you any more pain than necessary. I'll take the blame, so you do not feel bad. I will that be difficult. Bottom line is I'm no longer wants to be with you, and I'm doing a bunch of excuses to justify why it is me and you do not (but really it is you).
Let's facesometimes people are just incompatible. The spark is not there. There is no link that will lead to lasting romance. It is a real problem when a person feels it and the other does not. There is no common ground want to build on the relationship and, finally, one half of the relationship is out. If they try to spare your feelings, they begin with the classics ... it's not you ... it's me.
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